Is this whole "take my ball and go home" mentality really necessary, its just going to further serve to fracture the community in the area. Sure, you may be 100% in the right regarding the goings on on the other forum, or 100% in the wrong, or some shade of grey inbetween. (I don't know, and frankly blame/righteousness is irrelevant here), but in all honesty the community would best be served by you guys and the new management of the other site just putting the whole Dag gone issue aside and allow yourselves to co-exist. This isn't a power struggle of any sort of relevant nature, or an outcome that matters beyond your own egos. I realize you all have put in lots of effort in community building, and building up a name, but frankly it really seems to me like both sides of this are letting their ego's destroy both.
Frankly what I see here is grown men acting like children; granted, I know nothing about what actually went on behind the scenes, so don't take this as an indictment but rather as an observation as to how it appears from the outside.
Logistically you have a forum that moved once, then "suffered" an abrupt change in management, then was displaced again. Both forums are just about 100% useless to the community at the moment.